Valentine’s Date Night Disaster-Proof Checklist
Logistics and day-of prep
- Time and meeting point: confirm time, place, and a simple plan for how you’ll get there.
- Dress for the moment: outfit planned for activity and weather; have a backup outfit option if plans shift.
- Transportation plan: rideshare, parking, or transit; know the best drop-off/exit points and surge pricing.
- Quick date-night kit
- Phone charger or portable battery
- Mints/gum, lip balm
- Tissues, hand sanitizer
- Small first-aid basics including band-aids and pain reliever
- Essentials on hand: wallet, ID, insurance card, and a small amount of cash for tips or in case credit card is not working / scanning / phone dies.
- Safety and boundaries: share your location with a trusted friends.
If something goes wrong
- Late or miscommunication: send a quick check-in text, propose Plan B, or a simple, honest renegotiation of plans.
- Venue issues or cancellations: have the backup option ready (another nearby place or a quick alternative activity).
- Too intense romance or pressure: acknowledge pacing and suggest a lighter option or a short wrap-up with a plan for a later, more relaxed date.
- Feeling unsafe or uncomfortable: exit politely and prioritize your safety (call a friend, switch venues, or end the date).
After the date
- Follow-up timing: send a brief message within a few hours to share appreciation and next steps.
- If you want to see them again: propose a concrete, low-pressure plan by text.
Have a wonderful Valentine’s Date!